I · The basics · Topic 2

Where to be, and where not

13 min

The fastest way to fail at social media is to try to be everywhere. An owner signs up for every platform, posts to each for a week, cannot keep up, and lets them all go quiet — and a dead profile is worse than none, because a customer who finds it sees a restaurant that looks abandoned. This topic is about the opposite discipline: choosing the one or two places worth your limited time, and ignoring the rest without guilt.

🎯 One done well beats five abandoned

Your time is the scarce resource, not the number of platforms available. Spreading a fixed amount of effort across five networks gives you five neglected profiles; pouring it into one gives you a presence that actually looks alive and grows. The maths is simple and most owners get it backwards.

A single platform where you post real photos a few times a week, reply to comments, and look open for business will do more for you than accounts on every network that each get a post a month. Pick where you can be consistent, commit to it, and treat the others as optional. There is no prize for occupying a platform you cannot feed, and there is a real cost: the abandoned profile that tells a hungry stranger you might have closed down.

📍 Go where your customers already are

Which platform is the right one is not about which is newest or biggest in general — it is about where the people who might actually eat at your restaurant already spend their time. That depends on who you serve.

Ask thisBecause it tells you
Who is my typical customer?Different ages and groups favour different platforms; go to theirs, not the one you like
Is my food highly visual?A photogenic menu rewards the image- and video-first platforms most
Am I a local spot or a destination?A neighbourhood place lives or dies on local discovery and maps; a destination can lean on reach
Where do similar restaurants near me get engagement?Look at places like yours; where they get real comments is where your customers are

Notice that none of these questions is "which platform do I personally enjoy?" The commonest mistake is choosing the network the owner likes rather than the one the customer uses. Follow the customer, even onto a platform you find tedious.

🔗 Point every profile home

Wherever you do have a profile, it is a storefront, and a storefront should lead somewhere. The people who land on it are often deciding right then whether to come, so it has to answer their questions and give them a next step, not just look nice.

Two things earn their place. Fill the profile out completely — a short line on who you are, your location, your hours, and a way to see the menu — because a visitor who cannot find your hours or your address simply leaves. And use the one link most platforms give you to point at something you own: your booking page, your menu, or best of all a place to join your email list or loyalty program from the last two courses. Every profile is a chance to turn a curious stranger into a booking, or into an owned contact you can reach again without the platform's permission. A pretty feed that leads nowhere wastes the very attention it worked to earn.

🏷️ Claim the basics everywhere, tend a few

There is a useful distinction between claiming a profile and actively running one. Claiming means registering your restaurant so the listing is accurate — the right name, address, hours, and a few good photos — even on platforms you do not actively post to. This protects you: it stops someone else controlling how you appear and makes sure a searcher finds correct information. Claiming is cheap and worth doing broadly.

Running a profile — posting regularly, replying, building an audience — is expensive in time, and that is what you limit to one or two. So the rule is two-sided: claim and correct your basic listing wherever customers might look you up, but only commit to actively posting where you can sustain it. A correct, claimed-but-quiet map or directory listing is fine; a social feed you post to once a season is not, because a feed is supposed to look alive and a listing is supposed to look accurate.

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